Divorce

Divorce has become more and more prevalent in today’s society. If something isn’t going your way in the marriage then most people automatically decide that they aren’t compatible anymore and assume that they need to break up. Or if the love isn’t so prominent in the relationship this is also means for divorce in the world today. But the truth is, all couples face difficulties at some point in their life together. Granted, some are more severe than others… During these situations of disagreement, it is easy to let small things appear big, but oftentimes, it distorts the situation into something it's not. We must remember that when these times arise, we must council the Lord and ask Him to soften our hearts because it is usually us that needs the lesson in the conflict. Also, we must remember the things that are shared in a relationship and how they were built together, like a family and children, and how a divorce will more than likely tear them apart, instead of making things easier. Heavenly Father will not let a good thing that He has joined together be separated, if we will come to Him with a humble heart, he can help in times of great trial. 

Fathers

Fathers play an important role in families. Father help show their young boys how to be a Father and start making habits to be success. The best way of learning is through observation. A father provides for a family and he loves their mother and they deal with difficult situations together. A mother and a father both play equally important roles in family life.

Intimacy

Intimacy is a natural and necessary part of marriage.  If taken out of context or forced it will not be as fulfilling or unifying as it has the potential to be. That being said, every sexual relationship is different, just as every relationship is different. If you feel dissatisfied, talk to your partner. Communication is key. Just as when you are talking about difficult situations you shouldn't be pointing fingers or saying harmful things. Have a conversation and figure out a solution together.

Parenting

Parenting is something we will all be affected by in one way or another. We will either become parents or if that’s not the case then we all have had parents and have been parented by someone in our lives. Parenting is not just a matter of getting our children to comply with the rules we have, but is rather a process for us to act on the needs of children. The needs of children can be placed into 5 categories

1. The need for contact

2. The need of belonging

3. The need for protection

4. The need to withdraw

5. The need for challenge                      

                  

When a child acts out, there is usually an underlying cause for the outburst/misbehavior, and it usually falls into one of these five categories stated above. We do not teach kids to behave, rather we teach them how to build character. Character can be built as we address the apparent needs of the child. As we address those needs we won't need to chase around their behavior because as their needs are met they will naturally be happier and more willing to abide by rules of the house.